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Between Us
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How Well Do You Know Me?

Answer about yourself, guess about each other, then see where the guesses land.

Takes
about 8 minutes
Who takes part
both of you, separately
Account
needed, for both of you
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You will be asked to sign in first. It is free.

What this one does

A lighter use of the same mechanism behind the Relationship Mirror. You each answer a set of questions about yourself and predict your partner's answers. The result shows where you read each other well and where you are working from an out-of-date picture.

What it will not do

Guessing wrong is not a failure of love. People change, and nobody is obliged to be legible.

It also will not diagnose either of you, will not name a condition, and will not cite research, because there is no research behind it to cite. It is a structure for a conversation.

How it actually works

  1. You both get asked the same things

    Each of you signs in to your own account and works through it alone. If you have not linked up yet, you send one invitation link and that is the last bit of admin.

  2. Neither of you can see the other's answers

    Not while you are answering, and not after you finish if your partner has not. There is no partial reveal and no progress peek beyond whether they have finished.

  3. You both say yes, separately

    When you have both completed it, each of you is asked whether you want the comparison shown. Both answers have to be yes. One yes does nothing.

  4. You get the comparison, in full, free

    Every category and every gap, with no part of it held back for a paid tier. The scoring is ordinary arithmetic written down in our code, not a model's opinion.

  5. Either of you can pull the plug

    Withdraw your consent and the comparison stops being shown to both of you. You can delete the whole thing, and deletion means deletion.

The order matters and is enforced on our servers: until you have both finished and both said yes, neither of you can see the other's answers — not in the page, not in the network response, not by refreshing. Either of you can withdraw at any point, and the comparison stops being shown.

You will both need about 8 minutes.

Free, and it stays free. There is no step later on where this asks for money.

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This is not therapy, and it is not safe to use as leverage.

Between Us is not counselling or a clinical assessment, and it does not know your situation. If you are frightened of your partner, or if you are being pressured into using something like this, please stop and look at these resources instead.

Related reading: The Difference Between Feeling Heard and Being Agreed With